**First off, could you make me private if you dont mind. I dont want my username linked to this horrible story lol** :)
I had a recent date with a man I met on Okcupid. He was getting his PHD, he was very fit, very handsome, and had perfect grammar. A total dream boat, naturally I was drawn to him. What is more weird, is that he approached me on the website first.
However, in the time we knew each other, he sent me excessive text messages, five at a time, talking only about himself. He asked me like two questions the entire course of the week. He started calling me baby, and darling(gag). I even, at some point began to think he might have been including me in mass texts, although I’m unsure. And on day two of texting he begged me over and over to meet him at his house to watch Netflix(cheap jerk).
I told him several times, that it was not going to happen, I was not going to meet him at his house. That we needed to meet in well lit, public space. I began to kind of get a feeling he might be ashamed to even meet me in public. After a while of this childish argument that violated my rights, I completely ignored his texts. He called me several times after that, even sent me his address. He left a message for me saying “I’m a busy guy, I cleared up time in my day to hang out with you”.
Here is when I made a horrible, stupid mistake. To get him to leave me alone, I gave in and I asked him to meet me again at a restaurant, because my curiosity was peaked. Who was this guy!?! Finally he agreed with this. I waited for him, and finally I saw him. He looked nothing like his photos(well, at least not anymore). He was pale, and kinda overweight. College life had not been good to him.
We talked for like 10 minutes in the parking lot, He then tried to put his hands on my lower butt, while I was talking with him. I told him I needed to go home, and to which he said an unbelievable thing, “You can come stay at my place all night baby”. I pulled away, I was obviously expressing my disgust. He got the hint, and I headed to my car.
Worst experience ever.